Pop-up weddings are shaking up the traditional nuptial scene, blending the surprise of a flash mob with the romance of a wedding. Imagine saying ‘I do’ amidst the everyday bustle of a coffee shop or between the shelves of a craft store. These weddings defy the norm, often foregoing formal permissions for a touch of spontaneity. But, is this carefree approach all it’s cracked up to be?
Permission: More Than Just a Formality
Skipping the required permit might seem rebellious and romantic, but it’s really just trespassing. It’s one thing to be spontaneous, quite another to turn someone’s business into your wedding venue without a heads-up or proper location fees paid.
Surprise! It’s Our Wedding, Not Just Coffee
Imagine you’re sipping your latte, and suddenly, you’re in the front row of a wedding. Surprise factor aside, it’s a bit inconsiderate to spring a ceremony on unsuspecting patrons and staff, right?
The Unamused Venue
Businesses aren’t always thrilled to find themselves hosting a wedding. They have a plan for the day, and “impromptu wedding” isn’t typically on the agenda. Plus, there’s the whole ‘using someone else’s space for free’ thing.
Photographer’s Dilemma
As the photographer, it’s a wild ride. Sure, you get some unique shots, but it’s a balancing act between capturing the moment and not getting kicked out by the manager.
Think Twice Before You Pop-Up
Pop-up weddings are cute in theory, but they often overlook the respect and planning that make a wedding special for everyone involved – including the venue owners and vendors.
So, next time you’re thinking of a pop-up wedding, maybe just pop the question: “Should we actually do this here?”
Please note none of the couples featured in this blog post had a pop-up wedding! If you’re interested in a small intimate ceremony, we suggest you forgo the pop-up and plan a micro-wedding. Contact us to hear more!
